If there’s one thing more girls need to learn, it’s how to flirt. First, everyone needs to realize that flirting isn’t a bad thing and doesn’t necessarily mean you’re trying to “pick-up”. Flirting is an essential part of life and if more people did it, the world would be a happier place.
Now, I’m a happily married woman and I can proudly confess that I flirt multiple times daily, with multiple people, in multiple situations. I will flirt with the cashier at the grocery store, the customer service agent I call about my phone service, my friends, my family, my co-workers, hell I’d flirt with my dog if I had one. Boys, girls, young, old, it doesn’t matter who it is, I will flirt.
You see, it’s not about getting a piece or trying to find a fling. It’s about being nice, being coy, and adding that something special during every interaction. Something special that will make people remember you. My mom calls it my “cutesy” attitude. I do it when I want to get my way, and to be honest it almost always works.
A little side smile, a small shoulder shrug, a slight glance to the right; these are small non-verbal cues that go a long way. People notice and people remember. Depending on the situation you’re in, you should be able to gauge how far your flirting should go. You need to figure out what you want and go from there. If you’re an inexperienced flirt, don’t fret! There’s hope for you and the key is starting slowly. Hold eye contact with that cute guy for an extra second at the bar, give an extra smile to the guy working in the aisle at the supermarket. Don’t think too much or try too hard, just be yourself and add some flavour to that bland routine of insecurity and shyness you’ve been carrying around.
It’s not about being cocky or obnoxious, it’s about being confident and nice–and knowing what you want. It’s a simple combination that many people seem to have trouble mastering. Once you single girls get the hang of it, you’ll see the boys start pouring in. Guys like girls who have a purpose, who go after the things they want. Stop holding back because you think it’s what you’re “supposed” to do. Do what you WANT to do and people will take notice.
Flirt everyday, not for others but for yourself. Not always to get the guy, but to get your way. You’ll notice a happier you and you will start attracting positive vibes. Boys love happy girls so start now!
Go! Now! Flirt your way to happiness…. and maybe the guy of your dreams.
Your forever flirt,
The Love Hawk